Ebay wins I think...

Here are the results of my little "auction experiment"

Ebay:

The bracelet sold on ebay with 1 bidder for $4.99 I cost me $1.14 to sell on Ebay.

ArtAndCraftAuctions:

The bracelet did not sell on ArtAndCraftAuctions it cost me $.30 to try and sell it. but, I re-listed it for free and if it did sell then there would not have been any "final value fees" so it would have cost me $.84 less to sell there.

The interesting thing is that I had exactly the same amount of viewers on each auction, and only one bidder on ebay. I think I will try this again and start the auctions at $.99 and see what happens.

Sick again

Well we've done it again!

It started with Jimmy He has had a really yucky runny nose for about two weeks now. I was worried that because of his congestion they would not be able to do his MRI next week because he needs sedation. Then I started to feel really sick Friday evening, it was a real familiar sick feeling, nausea, really sore throat, fever, aches, I knew what I had STREP THROAT AGAIN! So Jimmy and I went to the insta-care (boy did they name that wrong) and 1.5 hours later we saw the doctor. They weren't used to children like Jimmy there I'm sure. He sat right down and started putting the blood pressure cuff on and asked if he could take his own temperature. It is kind of funny how this 6 year old just takes over a doctors office.

First the nurse looked in my throat and took a throat culture. She then asked Jimmy if he had a sore throat or if his head hurt. Jimmy of course said no. I told her that I thought Jimmy did have a sore throat because of how he was acting but he will never tell us when he is in pain. So would she please check him. She looked at me rolled her eyes and said she would take his word for it. When the doctor came in he asked Jimmy if he had a sore throat or if his head hurt, with the same answer and explanation from mom the doctor did look in Jimmy's throat and said it looked very sore. He pressed on Jimmy's forehead and decided that he had a headache. He then asked the nurse why she didn't do a strep test on Jimmy. Sometimes moms do know what they are talking about.

Well the doctor diagnosed Jimmy with a sinus infection and probably a strep throat and I definitely had a strep throat. Saturday evening son #2, Came down with Strep throat, Monday Son #1 and #3 were sick and today my hubby is complaining. We are all on antibiotics now. I still don't feel well but I am better than everyone else so guess who gets to play nurse to 5 people?

Auction website contest: is ebay the best?

I have been thinking for sometime about how to earn some money for my favorite charitable organizations. Pediatric Brain Tumor Foundation and St. Jude Children's Research Hospital. I have decided to combine a hobby with my desire to help. So I have started to make jewelry and knit scarves. The scarves I figure I can knit while in hospital waiting rooms, it is not something I really have to think about, and I won't feel like I am waisting all my time. I figure half of the money I make should go to these charities and the other half to buying more supplies to make more scarves and jewelry.

Well I have decided to combine the sell of jewelry with an "Auction Test" I made 3 of the same bracelets, This is unusual because I usually never do more than one of a design. I listed one bracelet on Ebay one on ArtAndCraftAuctions and one on Etsy. we'll see which one sells best.

Half of the money that the bracelet sells for(minimum of $5.00) will go to Pediatric Brain Tumor Foundation, the rest of the proceeds of the sell will go to buy supplies to make more bracelets.

Bid on a bracelet and let's see which auction website is best.
Esty
ArtAndCraftAuctions
Ebay
I'll let you know what happens next week.

My little Army Guy

Jimmy loves to play "army guys" his favorite color is camouflage he is fascinated with everything military. I have been somewhat concerned that there was one more thing that he wanted to do in life but was going to be disappointed because he is legally blind. I finally asked him "do you want to be in the army when you grow up?" His reply was "no way, I could get hurt"

Just an example of another difference that cancer has made in his life. He is far more aware of his mortality than other 6 year olds. He is not obsessed by death but he is aware of the possibility of his death in a way that is so unusual for a child. In a way he seems so wise and mature.

I don't know if it is good or bad, it just is.

Ebay strike and alternatives to ebay

I have been fed up with Ebay for a while. I used to sell ACEO cards for $7 to $25 each on Ebay but because of excessive fees it no longer made sense for me to sell there. Well Ebay just raised their fees again under the pretext of reducing the listing fees. Sellers are all fed up, a bunch of sellers have decided strike this week. I checked today and found that Ebay listings are down 17.79% !

I still keep in touch with a bunch of great Ebay artists they have decided to make thier own art and craft auction website. It has only been up for a few days and hasn't had the grand opening yet but WOW they are already selling lots of art! Check it out at ArtAndCraftAuctions.com I even listed a Painting. here is a coupon to use at the new site.

What does a man want for Valentine's day?

Have you noticed it? All the ads for Valentine's day are about "what to get for her on Valentine's day" I thought Valentine's day is a day to celebrate love, but Valentine's Day seems to be a day to celebrate "buy your woman something nice or you will be in trouble" Why are there so few commercials and ads suggesting what to buy for him on Valentine's day?

My husband takes me out for a "date night" once a week. He tells me he loves me at least three times a day. He always make sure I have everything I want, and I still expect some show of affection on Valentine's day. Why? We should be more concerned about how we show our men that we love them then we are about what they do for us. Because when a man knows he is loved and appreciated he is anxious to please his woman.

Real men love to make their woman happy, they know when she is happy they can reap the benefits. Let's face it girls, men are easy, we know what they want. They want their woman to be happy to see them, they want to know that they are your "hero" that you depend on them and appreciate them, and they want to be loved up properly.

Buy them a nice techno gadget too.

What does a woman want for valentines day?

Red Rosebud 2.5x3.5 Mini watercolor

It is soon approaching... Valentines day. I bet my husband dreads Valentines day. I always tell my husband not to get me anything for valentines day, but he knows that is not true, I do want things for valentines day, but this is what I mean. don't get me the big three...

1. Flowers- I always feel somewhat guilty when I get this HUGE bouquet of red roses that my husband is apt to send me. Besides, roses die in a week. I just think of all the practical things that the money could have been spent on. I do love flowers though, but I am just as happy with a $5.00 bouquet from the grocery store as I am with the $50.00 bouquet from the florist.

2. Candy- *UGH* like I need more temptation. No candy please.

3. Jewelry- I really love pretty sparkly things I love to look at them but, I don't need any more jewelry. I don't even wear most of the jewelry that you have given me. *more guilt* So don't get me jewelry.

What do I want? I want to know that you love me and spent time and effort thinking of me, not that you spent lots of money on me. I would rather have a letter and a single rose from you than a huge bouquet of flowers delivered that you just called up and ordered. I would rather have a hundred little notes around the house than a box of Godiva chocolates. I would rather have a picnic dinner on a blanket in front of the fireplace than an expensive dinner in a fancy restaurant. I want to spend time with you and I want to know that you thought of me and love me. You can buy me stuff and take me to dinner, just make it very personal.

well this stinks

My sister had a miscarriage. It really stinks because I live so far away from her that I can't even give her a hug.

I kind of know what she is going through, I had four miscarriages. But I don't suppose anyone ever really knows how someone else is feeling, even when they have been through the same thing. I do remember how badly I was hurting at those times and my heart hurts for her now.

I will not be defined by a brain tumor.

Butterfly 2.5"x3.5" mini watercolor

Jimmy had his first day of going to "normal" school for math. He still goes to the school for the blind for everything else. He went to a first grade class with all the "normal" first grade kids at the "normal" school. He came home today and told me about it. He said they passed braille cards out to all the kids and the teacher asked him to tell about himself. He told about how he has a brain tumor and now he can't see out of one eye. (his vision is actually a lot worse than that, but he is convinced that he sees just fine out of his "good eye"). It really makes me angry that my six year old has to define his life as "I have a brain tumor". It makes me angry that I define so much of my life as "I have a son with a brain tumor". I must think of it at least 1,000 times a day. The fear is always there in the pit of my stomach, the pain of thinking that the tumor might be growing right now and there is nothing I can do about it. I hate looking a his poor scarred half-bald little head it always reminds me that he is not a "normal" kid. I am not going to let this tumor define me, or him anymore.

We are going to "Hair Club for Kids" to get him a hairpiece so he will not look so much like a brain tumor kid. I will treat him like a normal kid and I will try to think less about his brain tumor, at least until his next Dr. appointment.

Feeling Better

Cold Wind 2.5x3.5 mini watercolor

Well I am feeling lots better. I was put back on the antibiotics last week and I was felling somewhat better but I was still very tired and weak. I would get out of breath just walking up the stairs, was dizzy all the time, and taking 2 or 3 naps a day. Then I figured it out. I was anemic *Duh* I haven't really eaten much for 2 weeks and I am prone to being anemic so I should have recognized it. I am taking my iron supplements and now I am sooooo much better. hopefully it will stick and no one else will get sick.

My depresssion therapy

You are my Sunshine 2.5" x 3.5" miniature watercolor

Ok first of all the Doctor put me back on antibiotics and I am starting to feel human again for short spirts of time.

I wanted to share my favorite song with you, It is my depression therapy song. There are times I paly this everyday. It helps to put things into perspective for me. It is by David M. Bailey. He is pretty well known in th "brain tumor world" David is an 11-year survivor of a brain tumor that was predicted to kill him in 6 months. His website is www.davidmbailey.com

"One More Day"
www.davidmbailey.com/mp3/onemoreday.mp3


My boy's favorite David M. Bailey song "The Airport Song"
http://www.davidmbailey.com/mp3/airport%20song.mp3

Sick, Sick, Sick

We are all sick, It seems we have been that way since my sisters visit the week after Christmas. First we had the stomach flu, it went through the whole family, one at a time, some of us had it for only a couple of days, others it lasted for a week. My dad has been feeling really weak and tired ever since the flu. we finally got him to go to the doctor and they took two weeks to figure out he has pneumonia (he looks like he has lost 20 lbs). For the last couple of weeks my 13 year-old had not been feeling well. He had cough and sore throat that he decided to share it with me. What seemed to be a mild cold when he had it (he never even had a fever) totally wiped me out for four days. I was unable to eat and had a high fever, I did not even get out of bed to cook dinner. I was really sure it was strep throat. We went to the Doctor and got strep tests the doctor gave us 2 days of antibiotics until we could get the results of the tests. After being on the antibiotics for a couple of days we were starting to feel better. Then the doctors office called to say the test was negative, so no more antibiotics. So I was feeling well for the last couple of days when yesterday I started up with the sore throat again. I think I really do have strep throat and with the antibiotics gone it has come back, I guess we will give it a few days and see.

The reason to love last minute house guests

Miniature watercolor 3.5" x2.5"

Let me tell you about my sister, she is perfect. I don't mean that in some snide or sarcastic way, I honestly mean it. I really admire her. She is pretty, thin and blond, unbelievably nice, she lives in a fabulous home in the hills of southern California that she keeps immaculately clean, and she is very organized. Let's just say were are polar opposites. My home is never clean and I definitely not organized I have never been blond, although with all the grey hair I have been getting lately I tell people that I am going blond, and don't even get me started on the whole young and skinny thing.

A couple of days after Christmas my sister and her family were driving up to visit the relatives in Utah they always stay at our parents home, my brother and his new wife were staying there also. Unfortunately my poor brother chose that day to have the stomach flu. So about an hour before she arrived my sister called to ask if they could stay with us to avoid all the germs. I told her of course she could. Now this is the amazing part, I did not freak out. I did not run around frantically cleaning I did not stress out and have the boys drop everything to clean up, I did have them sweep the family room floor but that is about it. If I would have known she was coming weeks or days in advance, I would have been stressed out and I would have been busy cleaning everything (as if I needed more stress at Christmas.) The whole thing actually worked out very well, I avoided the stress that would have occurred if I would have had more notice but, with all the benefits of having my sister over. We saw more of my sister and her family than I would have otherwise, and the kids just loved having them stay here. I do regret that because of plans I made before I knew I was going to have house guests I never had time to really cook them a meal. I do hope she got over the shock at staying in my messy chaotic house.

Oh, and we all ended up getting the stomach flu anyway.

love ya Zelda!

Who do you look like?

My husband told me about this cool website that will tell you what celebrities you look like
http://www.myheritage.com/FP/Company/tryFaceRecognition.php?collage=1 I did it and discovered that I don't know very many celebs. I only know who two of the celebritys that supposedly I look like are. I need to get out more.

my love hate relationship with Christmas

Andrew 12x16 Acrylic

I used to just LOVE Christmas! I loved everything about it, I started to play Christmas music in July! I could not wait to buy things for those I loved. Now, I'm not so sure how I feel about it. I was so depressed this Christmas, I suppose it is due to all the things that have happened in the last few years that I associate with Christmas time, two years ago it was my sons brain tumor, radiation therapy, and my father-in-laws death during Christmas dinner. Last year it was another major surgery on my sons head in December. This year it was the very worrisome results of my sons MRI on Dec. 19th.

This year my husband asked me if we could do Christmas dinner at our house instead of his mom's home. Two years ago I swore I would never do Christmas dinner again, not that I ever enjoyed doing it, It always makes Christmas so much more stressful, I'd be just as happy having peanut butter sandwiches and enjoying the time with my kids. I told him I didn't want to do it but, if it meant a lot to him (and I know it does) then I would do it, kind of my Christmas gift to him. I knew it was going to be hard but, I didn't know how hard it was going to be.

The weirdest thing happened to me, I am not the type of person who is prone to hysterics, I deplore drama, and I am not a terribly emotional person but when my guests started showing up I started crying. I'm still not sure why, perhaps lack of sleep, or embarrassment at my messy house, you know with 4 boys opening gifts and playing with toys all day, or the memories of the past few Christmases or the stress or all of it. I went and hid in my bedroom and sobbed uncontrollably for what seems like an hour, I just could not get control of myself. It was then that I realized I HATE CHRISTMAS! not because of Christmas but all the stress and terrible memories it brings. When I returned I hope no one noticed my red swollen eyes or my absence I hope they don't think I was rude for being disappearing for so long. I never explained, I just didn't know what to say.